Dating a poor guy
I was becoming attractive, to the point where other guys were staring and had lust in their eyes.
To say I wish I was a big boy again would not be too far from the truth.
Queer men are varying shades of the rainbow." —Chris, 25 "I went from a 225-pound fat boy to a 145-pound athletic guy.
As I lost more weight and gained muscle mass, I began to notice a change in my looks.
Buzz Feed reached out to some of those gay twentysomethings to tell us some of their difficulties when trying to date.
On one hand, this is kind of great because you get to weed out a lot of clunkers you wouldn't want to spend time with.
On the other hand, it sucks because there's less for you to discover from spending actual, in-person time with him." —Dylan, 29 "When 'Masc4Masc' and 'Straight Acting' are no longer a thing, then a lot of our dating problems would be eliminated.
Even though they're absolutely correct, maybe my idea of fun is not being single.
I know what 'wild and crazy fun' is out there, but I already got it out of my system. So yeah, I have every right to want to be with someone." —Tom, 22 "Every guy I've ever met that's my age just doesn't have their shit together.